Mona Lou Riley

April 11, 1935 ~ November 13, 2020 (age 85)


Long time Napa resident Mona Lou Riley passed away peacefully in the arms of her family on November 13. Mona was born in the little town of Hoisington, Kansas; the granddaughter of Irish immigrants. She was born in her Grandma Shattuck's home in the middle of a dust storm. When she was 7 years old, her Dad got a job at the Mare Island Naval Shipyard during the war and he packed up the family and came to Vallejo. Mona attended St Vincents school in Vallejo where she was on the basketball team and was crowned Queen of the Sophomore Hop.

At 15 she met her soul mate over a wrong telephone number call. She liked the sound of his voice and made her friend call him back. They eventually arranged a time to meet at Vichie Springs pool, where Jim had a florescent orange swim suit and made repeated dives off the diving board to impress her. And impressed she was and would be the first to tell you. They never spoke that day. Many more phone calls came and dates when they actually spoke.

They were married in 1955 in Vallejo at her childhood home. Her and Jim moved to Washington State where Jim served in the Army. They had their first born Patrick Lewis in 1956. They eventually moved to Napa where they scrimped and saved to build their home. Mona had three more children, Kelly Lou, Casey Barton and Stacy Ann and an honorary daughter Jackie who loved her like her own mother. She devoted her every breath to her family. Jim was her life and her rock. Mona had no mean in her, she had a deep faith in God and her family meant everything.

She hunted with Jim and killed an antelope, she could install a battery in a car and once came to the door with a shotgun when strangers had followed one of her daughters home at night. She was known for her humor and wit. She was famous for some of her sayings such as "you can't put an old fish in a new tank", "nothing is written in dirt", " You can lead a horse to water but you can't take your dog to lunch" She always made us laugh and never once felt sorry for herself as her health declined. She had 11 grandchildren, Hannah, Kayley, Kellen, Kelsey, Quinton, Isabella, Storm, Dylan, Jade, Clearwater, and Sundance.

Her children and grand children were devoted to her. She also had four great grand children, Brooklyn, Rebel, Crew and Kolton. She spent many afternoons sitting up in her backyard admiring a mural of a whale her grandson Quinton painted for her. Nothing made her happier than having her family together. Mona found happiness in her home, in her yard and her family and Native American history and artifacts.

She was with Jim for over 70 years and commented frequently that he had the body of a Greek God. They shared an unbreakable bond. Her kindness and wisdom she imparted to all of us and she will live on in her family through her actions and her words. She was a wife, a mother, a grandmother and a great grandmother and found pure joy in that. She is one of the very best humans on this planet. We know our sweet Mama will be watching over us and will be waiting for us.




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